Everyone always talks about choices we make and how those choices affect our future, our emotions, and well just our entire life. I would have to agree. In life you do make choices and those choices en turn CAN affect your entire life.
In the past year I have made A LOT of choices and most of them have effected my entire life. I found out a lot of information about myself past year and I decided I wanted to record it. I want to have something I can look back on and say "WOW look at all that cool stuff I use to do but don;t anymore".
First decision I made that changed my life was moving in with my (boyfriend Sam, who will soon find out is my husband now). I didn't just move in with my boyfriend I moved in with our roommate who for the purposes of this blog we will not disclose his name. I moved in with my boyfriend and his roommate and honestly looking back it was the BEST decision I had made in a while. Your probably thinking now she is going to tell us about how much she learned and how it made her a better person. Well, I am not. I am going to tell you the experience changed me. I had lived on my own before I met my now husband and really enjoyed having my own space. I had never been very good at sharing and when you live alone, well, you don't have to share. I also don't have any rules expect the ones I deem are most important naturally they are obviously the best rules in the world. Naturally. While living in this house that I can only describe as gross, weird, and VERY yellow. For starters this house had gross carpet, so gross that it had flea's in it and other things I probably will never want to know about. I saw weird because the house had a weird layout. you really didn't walk in through the front door you walked in through the "side" door. After walking into what would feel like to any normal person the side door to the house you walk into the kitchen/dinning area/laundry room. While I admire the homes multiple purpose rooms, I have to acknowledge that this room specifically had one purpose, to be unclean-able. I could not get this room CLEAN. The floor no matter how many times I scrubbed was always dirty and the kitchen was so weirdly laid out I never knew if I was cleaning the kitchen or the family room?
While the house was not my favorite the person inside was. My Sammy, He is the single greatest thing has ever happened to me in my life. People always told me when you meet the right person you will know. I use to think that was crap. Total crap. NO way you just met someone and knew. Well I met Sam and I knew. He completed my world that was incomplete before. I think you never realize how incomplete your world is until you meet someone who completes it.
8 Months Later.
We got married in Cheyenne, Wyoming with his family in the town court house. I realize there are lots of girls out there who dream of a white wedding but this wedding was PERFECT. It simple and perfect.
Back to my choices conversation. I made a choice to do something that I knew my heart wanted and I could not be happier! My husband and my adventure has JUST begun!
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